Confession by a cheating husband

Date January 4, 2015

” We were inspired by this testimony and thought we should compile it for u”

I am a 39 year old brother dying of Aids.
I would like to share my testimony with you. I am an owner of one of the largest IT Companies in my country .I own a Jaguar coupe and I also own a 5.5M beautiful home in one of the most affluent suburbs in my area.

I have a beautiful lady who is deeply in love with me and a loving family, but most important, I have Jesus.This is just a wake up call to all single brothers and sisters, who are professing to be Christians, but don’t want to be complete.
Brothers, I had a beautiful young lady who loves the Lord and worships the ground I walk on.
I still wasn’t quite happy because sometimes I would see another sister with a Coca-Cola-bottle shape and just wanted to hit it. Because I was using a condom I thought that I wouldn’t catch the Killer “Aids” But guess what? I did. The person I caught it from was a girl that I knew well. The condom came off and now I am dying of Aids.Yes, I wore a condom, God gives us time after time to straighten our lives up. I do know the Lord in the pardon of my sins.

I’ve been saved now for 8 years. I found out 7 months ago that I had the virus, and now I have full-blown Aids. I really didn’t think that I was doing anything wrong, because I would tell the women who I would deal with about the woman I love.

I thought that was good enough. But it wasn’t. I am a good man and also a God-fearing man; but my weakness was women. I really wasn’t out there like you may think I was. But every once and a while I would see something I wanted to try. My girlfriend and I were sexually active, but rarely would we do IT. She is a praying woman.

I think she was intimate with me because she loved me and she wanted to make me happy. Now I’ve given AIDS to the woman I love and has been faithful to me because of lust.

Brothers and sisters, what I am telling you is that God is tired of us hurting each other and using each other for self gratification. God has given me my home, my dream car and a beautiful woman and I took it all for granted. I’ve been tithing for 7 years. I am the chairman of my Deacon Board. When I told my Pastor I had AIDS, he could not believe it because of the way I would carry myself.

Brothers … if you have a sister who loves the Lord and who loves you for who you are and not for what you look like nor what you have, cherish her. Sisters … if you have a brother who loves the Lord, love and cherish him.

My life has been altered. I’ve been with my lady since I was 22, and I’ve always used my young age as an excuse for not being loyal and not settling down with the woman I loved. I was being a hypocrite thinking that I was missing something, and not realizing that I had a good woman who loved and adored me.

I wish I had been a real man and had appreciated the good woman God had sent me by not making excuses and dedicating my life to her. I’ve embarrassed my family, my church and my friends. I was hardheaded and now I must suffer. God is cleaning up.”

Stop playing with God. God is revealing the secrets of us Christians. Brothers and sisters, we don’t have to have so many “friends,” you know what we call them.”The ones we are planning to sleep with but haven’t yet.”We often say that we don’t want anyone to know our business, but God is about to reveal some things.

Especially us young people. We think so carnal. But we say that we have been transformed. We have been transformed from what we want to be transformed from.
Let’s be real. God knows that the opposite sex attracts us, and he knows the desires we have for each other, but we don’t have to have multiple partners.If I could do it all over again, i would not have sacrificed my family’s happiness due to lust!! But now I can’t! But you can!
Singles… I gotta tell you, it’s not worth it. I love you all! Get rid of casual sex. And fight to prevent lovemaking (fornication)!

This is really deep. After you’ve read this, think about yourself. Sin is sin and everything done in the dark shall come to light. Professing that He is Lord, and yet worshiping the devil every chance you get will lead you to the same path as me.

Sex must be with your OWN wife or husband. That includes necking and petting, touching, oral sex, phone or Internet sex, and even fantasizing.
Get your mind out of the gutter and put it in the Word of God and you’ll have great success. Don’t and you’ll have great woe.

I have also learnt that forgiveness does not cancel out the Consequences, at least not so far.But that’s on me. Still, the Lord is my source of existence and Savior.
He keeps me functioning each and every day. Thank you for letting me share my story with you. I’m telling it like it REALLY is to help somebody. Without Him, I am nothing but with Him I can do all things.

Touched by the testimony?

Let our love for Jesus be real. Its definitely not worth it being a luke-warm Christian get up and lead a good life for you are the salt of the earth without salt, the food is tasteless,without you, who do you expect God to use to change the World???

If you have not yet accepted Christ as your Lord and Saviour now is the time..

Say the following prayer:

Lord Christ Jesus , I confess that you are Lord and I believe in my heart that you have risen from the dead I repent of my sins and I accept you today as my Lord and Saviour , I thank you for forgiving my sins and accepting me as I am.
In Jesus name, Amen
you are now a new creature all things are passed away.
Find a local church and feed yourself with the word and follow the simple growth principles below, stay away from negative company.

G - Go to God daily in prayer
R - Read and study the bible regularly
O - Obey God each moment
W- Worship in a local church regularly
T - Tell others about Christ
H - (Holy Spirit) let Him direct you

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Bless you bless you and bless you!!

“It’s always better to put your trust in God than people - Standi”

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