Few Ideas for Dating Your Wife - J Buzzard

Date January 25, 2015

Few Ideas for Dating Your Wife

Men, you know your wife better than anyone else, and only you know how to best encourage and cultivate her as a woman of God. But sometimes it helps to build off other people’s ideas in order to form your own. Here are some ideas that I hope will spark your thinking about how you can date your wife.

1. Attend a wedding. Sit in the back row and spend the whole time whispering memories from your own wedding.

2. Make a list of 10 things your wife loves to do. Each new time you take your wife on a date, do one of those 10 things as your date.

3. Take up a new hobby with your wife; do something new that you’re both excited about.

4. Do the classic date: dinner and a show. Take your wife to din­ner and to a movie she wants to watch.

5. Devote at least one hour each night for alone time with your wife. Talk about how your days went. Joke around with each other. Cultivate your friendship. Talk honestly about what’s going on in your lives. Help each other. Encourage each other. Pray together.

6. Mark your wife’s birthday, your wedding anniversary, and Mother’s Day on your calendar every year and plan to make those days special.

7. Write a love note to your wife. Tell her all over again what she means to you.

8. Spend an evening stargazing with your wife and talking about dreams you have for the future.

9. Visit your roots. Visit where your wife grew up and where you grew up. Learn more about each other’s backgrounds.

10. Set a weekly date night. Each week rotate going out and stay­ing in for your date night.

11. Cut something from your schedule and use that time to date your wife.

12. Make time to vacation with your wife without your kids, without your work, and without your cell phone and computer.

Adapted by permission from Date Your Wife, by Justin Buzzard, ©2012, Crossway Books.

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